September 2023 Like Mother

Like Mother

Show Dates

September 25 – November 1

Artist Talk Date/Time

Artist talk and panel discussion, Wednesday, November 1, noon

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The impetus for LIKE MOTHER was learning that my own need to make work after my mother's death is a shared one. Many of my friends were losing their moms, too, and wanted to “work out” emotions around their passing. These are artists whom I admire with stories to tell. Some of their mothers were pilots, actresses, dancers, scientists, world-travelers, etc., in addition to being home makers.

These wonderful women should live on for our (artists and our families) benefit, but more importantly when strangers see LIKE MOTHER, hopefully they'll reflect on their own parental heritage; their stories, struggles and triumphs. We question ourselves: “What are the stories people will tell about us someday?”

LIKE MOTHER is a reminder to engage with all people: our culture is so NOW focused, the exhibit takes time to delve into the past and help us re-contextualize the present. I need to take this lesson to heart myself, fearing the ageism of the art world as I am in my 60’s…

My mother was a debutante, model, actress, socialite, world traveler, and a "hostess with the mostest" entertaining everyone from RAF pilots to royalty. Beverlie Lyles was larger-than-life to her family, her community, and beyond (the gentlemanly Spanish hospice director who spent weeks assisting her passage, knew of her history and therefore told me that it was an honor to be her caregiver). But as her daughter, it wasn’t until she passed away and I found myself researching her obituary that I realized what a truly extraordinary woman she was!

My mother and father met in Germany, he was a tank captain and she worked entertaining the troops. Surrounded by all those young enlisted men mom had lots of proposals (a co-worker and friend in Special Services became the target of a grenade attack by one spurned suitor). One of Bev's criteria for marriage included a willingness to live abroad, so my father became an executive director for 3M company’s international division. As a family we moved around the world (mom attended Queen Elizabeth's coronation, I won my first art contest on the ocean liner the Queen Elizabeth. OK, maybe that analogy's a stretch...).

The women in my family passed down a love of travel, socializing, volunteerism, and style (which I embody into my art as well as wardrobe, and even my EXCESSORIES ODD-YSSEY artcar's devoted to fashion). “Like mother, Like daughter”.